If weekends could talk, this past one would be telling the story of strength, sorrow, excitement, fantasy, and rock n’ roll. A weekend worth remembering, but one that took a great deal of strength to endure on my part.
After two weeks of being completely mistreated by a man I only dated for five weeks, I cut all ties on Saturday morning. I had planned on waiting to see him in person to decide what to do, but that all changed when he sent me an accidental text Friday night. Backing up, let me tell you about my Friday night. If you read my Friday post, you are aware that I was in contact with a musician I had seen last summer. I found him on a dating site, and he invited me out to his show. I went — all by myself. After his set, we sat and had some drinks, and he called me later on that night. I was pretty taken with him, but I hadn’t finished things with RST (the trucker).
That night when I was on the phone with the musician, I received a test from RST at 1:00 a.m. It wasn’t meant for me. That did it for me. I just had had enough. I sent him a message telling him to never message me again. He did, of course, the next morning. He acted like the victim once again. I didn’t bite this time. I told him that his lack of affection and attention made me lose interest. I told him that I was looking for someone who actually wanted to talk and hang out with me. He acted confused, but then told me off. DONE.
The following night, I went out with my friends to watch the musician’s show again. When he was done, we all hung out and played pool. He ended up driving me home, and I invited him in to play guitar together. We drank wine, played guitar, and cuddled all night. He’s much younger than I am, and I have no idea if it will go anywhere. Tonight he is coming over to cook me dinner, and I’m looking forward to spending time with him. He’s fun to be around, and he’s a simple kinda man. If anything we will have some fun and enjoy each other’s company.
On another note — I’ve tried commenting on a few of your blogs today, but Word Press is acting up. Hopefully it will let me comment later. Happy Monday my blogger friends — here’s to a great week.