Be Ashamed of Your Ignorance For It is Not Bliss

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Unfortunately for me, I’m an idealist.  I believe that there is a lot of goodness in the world, and I naively believe most people are understanding.  Why do I believe this?  Maybe I have to believe in goodness to make the world seem like a place I want to stay in. The problem with these beliefs are the contradictions I see to them more often than I’d like.


Yesterday I was faced with one such contradiction.  Because the situation involves my work place, I cannot go into detail.  However, I can say that I sat in front of an individual who told me mental health illnesses are “FAKE” illnesses.  Fake.  He used that word.  This person is not aware of my anxiety disorder, and he never will be.  I am very careful who I disclose my mental health issues with for this very reason.   Still, I was unable to say nothing.  My response to him went something like this: “Whether or not you believe that mental health disorders are real does not matter in this case.  The fact is the law views it as an illness, and we have a corporate obligation to accommodate people with this type of disability.”  He did seem to understand the word “LEGAL”.

I so badly wanted to debate this issue with him, but I didn’t because he is in a position of authority over me.  He would not fire me if I disclosed my own illness, but he would disrespect me and treat me differently.  Of course there are legal measures I could take if that were to happen; however, I do not feel that would be in my best interest.  The sad fact is, there are way too many people who think this way.  Mental illnesses can’t be seen, and if you have never experience one yourself, they are very difficult to understand.  But to call them “FAKE”… that is plain ignorance.  Is it “fake” when a teenage girl takes her own life because she can’t handle the sadness she feels everyday?  Are the millions of people taking anxiety and depression medication “faking” it?  What about the strung out homless people we see walking our streets everyday?  Are they there because they are mentally healthy?  GIVE YOUR FUCKING HEAD A SHAKE PEOPLE.  If you don’t know what you’re talking about, keep your fucking mouth shut.

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Mental illnesses are very real, and they affect people from all walks of life.  It doesn’t matter if a person was abused as a child, or if they came from a loving family.  Mental illnesses can and do affect all types of people.  I do not feel it’s my calling to change the way people see mental health issues.   IF they are too ignorant to accept the things they don’t understand, that is their problem.   Instead, I feel it’s my calling to help and encourage those that struggle with these illnesses.  I share with them my experiences, and I show my understanding for theirs.  I stand up for them to ensure they are treated fairly, and that they are not discriminated against.  This is why I chose a career in human resources.

“Ignorance is not bliss for those your ignorance affects.” – Ms. SG41



6 Comments Add yours

  1. summerSHINES says:

    I think you handled that situation extemely professionally, and I would have wanted to wipe the floor with that ignorant knobber. Well done for your dignified answer. Fake MY ARSE!!! From everything I’ve read your are so good at your job…and your anxiety difficulties will undoubtedly make you empathic of other’s vulnerability. I cannot believe there are still people out there saying that shit! Especially in business. I’m sorry you had to be in that situation but we’ll fucking done lovely for dealing with it so well 😊💪👍

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    1. Ms. SG41 says:

      It was seriously the hardest thing I’ve had to do in a long time. Sit there with my mouth shut, listening to his rant about how he knows mental health illnesses are fake. FUCKING prick. But thank you for your high praise. I did my best to protect the valunerable person he was attacking.

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      1. summerSHINES says:

        I would have probably wanted to slap him or knee him in the nuts! But of course I wouldn’t have done that. You kept your own feelings aside…responded effectively and stood up for that person. You should be very proud xx

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  2. Buffy Devane says:

    I concur with Summer that you did well to retain your sense of equanimity. 🙂
    I’m a (relatively) placid individual, so I’m told, but that would probably be a “berserk button” for me.

    And, by the way, your post was 100% correct and well-written — and your final quote is excellent.

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    1. Ms. SG41 says:

      oh goodness.. now you are making me blush

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  3. Buffy Devane says:

    Haha, you deserve to blush 🙂 😀

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